myself. I did not come here to convert. In fact, I am the one who got converted,” he said.
But it took him nine years after reaching Calcutta (now Kolkata) and joining St.
Xavier’s College, to muster up the confidence to meet Ray in person. “Although I wanted to
meet him right away, I didn’t want to just go and see him like he was a living museum piece.
I wanted to prepare myself, get to know his works more, so that when we met, there could be
a worthwhile dialogue,” he said. When they finally met, it was the beginning of a close
friendship that lasted 22 years- until Ray’s death in 1992.
“It was a very quiet friendship that developed over the years. Manikda [as Ray was
affectionately called by his friends] was a shy person and always very discreet about displaying
his emotions,” said Roberge. Though to outsiders, Ray’s massive stature- physical and
intellectual- might have made him come across as cold, aloof and even intimidating, he was
in reality a very simple and unassuming man with a subtle sense of humour. It was an unspoken
arrangement between the two of them to meet on Sundays at 9 a.m. at Ray’s residence on
Bishop Lefroy Road, Kolkata. Ray would invite Roberge over for private screenings of his
latest films and welcomed comments on them. But this happened only after the friendship
had cemented, for in the early days of their dialogue Ray’s shyness prevented him from
talking about his own films.